I’M Mari-Jean Anderson
Certified Intimacy & Relationship Coach
Discover The Reasonable Woman's Guide to Peace, Love and Connection
With all the advice out there…its hard to know what to do. Should you choose to collaborate with me and embrace my program you will uncover a personalized journey to rekindling the spark and connection with your partner. There's no universal solution—you’re an individual and you deserve a unique approach tailored to your specific needs and circumstances. Let’s map it out.
I’M Mari-Jean Anderson
Certified Intimacy and Relationship Coach
Discover The Reasonable Woman's Guide to Peace, Love and Connection
With all the advice out there…its hard to know what to do. Should you choose to collaborate with me and embrace my program you will uncover a personalized journey to rekindling the spark and connection with your partner. There's no universal solution—you’re an individual and you deserve a unique approach tailored to your specific needs and circumstances. Let’s map it out.
Taking your turn!
Are you feeling the frustration of life's inequities? Are you exhausted by consistently contributing more than your fair share to sustain your relationship? Uncover your authentic desires, identify your priorities, and discern the path you must take to reconstruct and revitalize your connection. It’s your turn, isn’t it?
Finding your way
You feel disconnected and unheard because your partner is not listening to you or
meeting your needs or desires. Learn techniques that let you see things for what they are, explore and create new boundaries, and re-engage your relationship with your partner so your husband wants to hear what you are saying.
Transforming Your Future
Not knowing if you want to stay or if he's ready to leave you is heartbreaking. Instead of shattering the life you've built together find how to progress toward a life that approaches challenge with a different sort of compassion and resilience. Reclaim his love and build a strong, lasting and exciting relationship together.
About Me
I remember starting each day with hope and ending it by crying myself to sleep. I thought I had had a good life! I was busy busy busy-I ran my own business, raised a child, kept a social agenda, gave beautiful dinners; I made a calendar so full, I even had to schedule in coffee with girlfriends. We moved to a different city and suddenly all I had was an empty house and a silent husband glued to his phone. This was supposed to be my “golden years”; instead, I’d become invisible. No fun, no adventure, no conversations…I was so lonely, sometimes I would go for massages just to feel someone touching me.
I hated my marriage, my husband, my life. I was angry, overwhelmed and resentful of all that I had given up to get here. I refused to accept that this was it. I needed to change my ending. I started researching what to do and soon my shelves and my brains were filled with advice on how to care for my husband, how to be a sexy wife, how to make him understand me, how to change him, how to kiss him, how to talk with him… I met with therapists, psychologists, hypnotists, counselors, and coaches who all had lots to say…but nothing felt completely honest.
Lots of experimenting showed me new ways of being that fit me and my sense of ethics. I became softer, more feminine; more me. My depression lifted; my anxiety dispersed. And you know what?
As I lightened up, my husband started changing too. He started reaching out to me, holding my hand, we… fell in love. But this love? It was so much richer, purer, and realer than I could have imagined. That feeling of being loved, and treasured; being half of a valued partnership is joy beyond joy, and it colored everything. I want that for you too.
Ten years and thousands of happy client success stories later, my sweetest success is that I’m living with the man of my dreams. This loving, generous and tender man is the very same guy that I was ready to leave. One of the things I've learned is that "one size does not fit all". Neither does the solution to your situation. I'm inviting you to come see for yourself. Together we can find your own blueprint for your own happily ever after.
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Testimonials
"As I work to stop controlling my husband (and everything around me), Mari armed me with specific tools through language. I implemented this right away. Now, my husband is taking actions simply to make me happy". – JM
“I look and respond MUCH differently to my husband thanks to Mari. My husband’s response to me with silence after I share a concern… used to set me off in a negative direction thinking he doesn’t care. I’m now learning that a silent response means my husband is processing and is thinking of ways to tackle my concern/problem. He just needs some time. Our relationship, and intimacy, have dramatically improved thanks to this shift. I can’t thank Mari enough!” - Jenny
“Mari listens with total compassion and alongside the ah-ha moments there are many hee-hee moments as she brings so much joy to her coaching sessions leaving me feeling on top of the world with the strategies to carry this feeling through to leading a brilliant life! I have had so many transformational moments being coached by Mari. One ah-ha moment is when I realized that my partner loves me and wants to be with me. I learned how to recognize it and let him….and here he is treating me like a queen ! Another time was during a dark period in winter she showed me how I could lift myself up and be truly lovely and happy”. -
Cassie H
"This is a picture of the handmade card my husband wrote to me…along with tickets for a second honeymoon in Hawaii. I remember complaining about how tightfisted and emotionless he was. You showed me how to change all that. You’re a miracle worker. I'm so grateful for you"- by MG
Discover the Reasonable Woman’s Guide to Peace, Love and Connection